Don't You LOVE IT??!! Corin made this for me over on facebook using my profile pic. I had the perfect hair-do for it, don't you think? You just HAVE to laugh or it will turn you cynical (much like anonymous)! Wednesday, March 9, 2011
1920's Man-Slave
Don't You LOVE IT??!! Corin made this for me over on facebook using my profile pic. I had the perfect hair-do for it, don't you think? You just HAVE to laugh or it will turn you cynical (much like anonymous)! Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Love Your Enemies
Last night my mind was made up. My facebook and blog would be closed down. I love blogging. There is a wanna-be writer somewhere down deep inside of me and these little posts, written in a non-writer style, are writing, none the less. I started blogging at Pieces From Me 4 years ago in June. That is a long run. It is to be a history for my children and grandchildren. I have written well over a thousand posts, and have met hundreds of people...a good dozen CLOSE friends, and a few "Bosom Friends". (Gotta love that Anne Shirley) I found great support in those of you raising traumatized children, incredible inspiration from the many quilting friends I have made, and learned much from some awesome Titus 2 women who are not necessarily "older". In turn, I invited you all into my life and you were all wonderful guests. My blog is not controversial, though I have strong opinions on things. I am a Christian...born-again, Bible-believing, knee-prayin, truth-bearing believer!!! I have been received in that arena by atheist, Gnostic, and I have a beautiful Muslim woman following my blog. I have never been attacked on my blog or any other internet forum for my faith, though I stand firmly for it. In the 4 years I have been blogging I have had one angry reader...a quilter who found my Face of Trauma posts offensive and she had the guts to email me privately and USE her name. I was hurt by her words...she called me abusive to my daughter by exposing the truth...but she had the conviction to not hide behind an "anonymous" comment. I know many bloggers who get hateful anonymous comments. I am not inviting them, but I think my skin is tough enough to deal with a reader's hateful comments, and I probably would have, if not for all the hacking problems that day. Hacking...let's talk about that one first. My email and facebook have been used by someone pretending to be me for months. It was a huge shock and quite a betrayal, as I am quite sure I know who it is. I called Comcast to find out if we could track the person....the hacker actually changed my email password yesterday in order to get in to it, which in turn locked me out. Comcast told me they could absolutely find out that information, but the nice gentleman in the security department warned me that once they had the order to find the person, they would prosecute the party themselves. My hands would be tied. I would have done this, except if it is who I think it is I just can't. Comcast is urging me to this, along with several others, though I am going to really pray about it. There is a pretty long statute of limitations, and if I find the problem persists, I may reconsider...though I may not. The thought makes me physically sick. So at this point, I am not feeling very secure in my internet venues.
Remember how I told you I had had no real nasty comments in the 4 years I had been blogging? Well I got a grand initiation last night. (This is unrealted to the hacker)
Last night I received this comment on a recent post where I shared my routines as Sweetheart was heading back to work....
"Awesome. Your cleaning abilities just blow me out of the water. Kudos to being a stereotypical man-slave of the 1920's. Boo feminism."
Something inside me said, this was not the comment of a "stranger". It is from someone who knows me, or at least knows "of" me. It felt really "personal" to me. That was a tough thing to process. I will not go into detail, but let's just say that "anonymous" is not always "anonymous" with the internet.....if you want to leave a comment that vile and nasty, and still, cowardly, not sign your name, then beware of the technology of the site-meter, which shows where you are at and just how you left my blog....you may be surprised to know how much your exit point can reveal about one who is foolish enough to think they are sly.
So here is the cross roads I come to. I plan to keep my blog, based on the many comments from facebook friends, and Sweetheart who got a bit upset that I would "let them win". As for facebook....I need to learn to secure it better if I am going to keep it and there are a couple of gals in California willing to help me with that. As for the rest, I have made the choice to forgive. To forgive the hacker, and also the semi-stranger who felt it necessary to spew her hatred. I understand my blog is a public forum and there is the right to speak your opinions, however, you will have to do them with a google account from now on....if your opinion is to matter at all , please put your name to it, otherwise it means nothing.
"But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; "
Jesus Christ, The Messiah
Ok, Lord. I will.
Friday, March 4, 2011
Hangin Out
Things here are moving along. Getting into the new routines. Sweetheart has worked every day this week and will work tomorrow too. We sure do miss him. The kids are getting use to the fact that just mom is here all day....somehow they forgot I can handle myself without dad just fine!! They got a reminder!
This is the Friday I get the grandbabies overnight, but they were sick, so Daddy took them to immediate care and then stayed home from work with them. Grandma did buy them some ice cream to take with them though. I sure miss them.
Off to get dinner finished up before Sweetheart gets home.

Monday, February 28, 2011
Sharing
I got my housework done and even made a few changes. I am forever changing that entryway. I found this old Hymnal...I love old Hymnals.
Also, I want to say Happy 51st Anniversary to my parents! They were married on the 29th of February, so no actual Anniversary "day" this year, but 51 years none the less! I love you guys!!!
Sunday, February 27, 2011
All Geared Up
Another job I got a jump start on was cleaning my plants. I keep fake plants above my kitchen soffets. Zachary threw a cat toy, which landed up there. When I looked up I could not believe the dust on those plants!
It is so easy...I usually do these in the summer so I can take them outside with the hose, but they could not wait that long! I used the kitchen sink and the sprayer. They came clean with no real effort. So much better. I should be embarrassed....but I'm not. ;) Without my schedules in place I NEVER even look up there!
I have my daily sheet filled out for tomorrow. Some call it a PODA (Parade Of Daily Activity). I just call it a Daily Sheet. I take my daily schedules from my binder and fill out the next days list of chores. Some days, everything on the schedule for that specific day does not need to be done. For example, if the dining room wasn't used, it may only get dusted and vacuumed once a week instead of the 3 times a week it is on the schedule. If it does, it goes on the daily sheet.
Any phone calls, appointments, or errands also go on there. I list at least one job per child for the day too.
My monthly cleaning schedule is much more detailed. The first week of the month focuses on the front of the mail level of the house. This includes the dining room, entryway and studio. I go through that list and divide up several of those jobs throughout the week.
Such jobs as wiping down switch plates, vacuuming behind and under furniture, and washing windows, find their way onto the daily sheet. It is spread over the week, with some days not getting any deep cleaning added to them, and everything gets done. For example, I added some of those jobs onto tomorrows list since I will be working in those rooms anyway. On Tuesday and Thursday, other than general pick up, those rooms are not on my list, so I will not add any focus cleaning to those days. If I do things right, I should easily be done with my cleaning in 1-4 hours per day, depending on the day. It averages out to be 2-3 total, and that includes the deep cleaning jobs and the regular routines, like making beds, swiping down bathrooms, etc. You can see my complete Home Management Binder by clicking on the link on my sidebar.
My monthly cleaning schedule is much more detailed. The first week of the month focuses on the front of the mail level of the house. This includes the dining room, entryway and studio. I go through that list and divide up several of those jobs throughout the week.
Another cleaning job I took care of was my blog list. I subscribed to 198 blogs and had over 1000 unread posts. I really only read about 75 blogs, so I pushed the unsubscribe button on those I never visit anyway. Most of those unread posts went away. I caught up on the others and can now enjoy my daily blog reading again. I always had my morning coffee while I read blogs. Well over the last 2 years, I have coffee with Sweetheart and read blogs as I can, leaving NO time to comment. I feel guilty about that...like I visited your home and said nothing. I should be able to do much more commenting now that I am getting my schedules back in place!
Say a prayer if you think of us....Sweetheart has a long drive to work and we are getting some snow overnight....3 inches or more. It will be a long day here without him and he will be missed so very much, but we are SO thankful for this blessing!
I leave you with a pic of Sassy. She lost her toy under the stove, the poor thing!

No worries...we got it out for her. Life is good for Sassy as long as her food bowl is full and her milk rings are available!
Friday, February 25, 2011
Returning To Normal
I created my Home Management Binder years ago...it started out a "Control Journal", but I didn't like that name AT all. It has been a wonderful tool in organizing my cleaning schedules and daily routines. It worked for me...I didn't work for it. But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19
What a blessing...those words are an understatement. Though I will miss him SO much, my schedules can work for me once again and I find myself almost giddy at the thought of "returning to normal".
Homeschool, though affected in the beginning, has moved along quite well in the last 2 years with Daddy home. Little will change, though we may be a bit more laid back. Dad liked everything "timed"....and he preferred the kids do school at a table. Zach use to work in every room of the house, which was fine with me. Today was testing so he stayed at the table.
He was pretty confident he had done well.
Sassy will miss Sweetheart as much as we will. He is the one who gives her treats! I found this pic of her this morning....remember when she looked like this???
That little 1 pound 7 ounce sweetie with the cut off whiskers? She sure grew up.....
....and OUT! Maybe she will thin out now that "Daddy" is not here all the time!
I am so thankful for the last 2 years and even though it has been difficult, I would not trade them for anything. Having all that time with my husband was a gift. That is how I look at it! I am excited for him in this new job as he creates a new future for himself and for me and the kids. He is an amazing provider!!!
Ok, on to some quilty-sewing news. I joined a PIF on facebook. It was a 5 person PIF and I signed up with Christina. She sent me a beautiful hand-made tea wallet.
Inside she had filled it with some wonderful teas and a scripture print from her online store, For His Glory Photography.
Go take a look at her prints. They are GORGEOUS!! You can find them by clinking on the above link.
Christina signed up on my PIF so I made her this....
I chose the Wagon Wheel design because she and her family moved out west this summer. They traveled by RV and made a real memory of the trip.
Here is the back...you all know how I love the back of a quilt as much as the front.
All my PIF's will have the same backing fabric to tie them together. Yeah....it was a large piece I bought and then decided against. It works for a back!
I still have 4 more to go. The 2nd one is in the hoop and the 3rd is almost ready to go there. It still has a few more leaves to add on.
I may just start blogging a little more now that I will be back in "normal"...Sweetheart use to always read my blog from work and he would know how the day went before he ever saw us sometimes! His hours will be long, so I may have to take lots of pics and post them so he knows what is happening!
I still have 4 more to go. The 2nd one is in the hoop and the 3rd is almost ready to go there. It still has a few more leaves to add on.
Oh, one more thing...we had the grandkids last week. TJ had no school Mon-Wed. so they were here Friday night and then went with Daddy on Saturday morning til Tuesday afternoon. We got them overnight again and then they went back to Mom on Wednesday. It was an unexpected blessing and we sure enjoyed them! They seem to be adjusting well. I know they sure adore their Daddy. When he walks in they go crazy over him!!! He's crazy for them too!
Ok, I think that is all for now. I'll be back soon to let you all know how normal feels!
Labels:
Binder,
Friends,
Homemaking,
Homeschool,
Minature Quilts,
Sweetheart,
Zachary
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Winner
I was suppose to pull a winner for the Spiced Cakes giveaway yesterday and I was so busy, I totally forgot!! No excuse...here we are today. The winner is DONNA!! Thank you all so much for showing your support! I am going to send a single bar of homemade soap to each entry, so you are all a winner. If you entered, send me your address and which "flavor" of soap you want to try. Donna, you will be sent all 3 soaps plus the candle.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Quilting and Cleaning
Another couple of helpers have been visiting weekly....
TJ helped make a cake for the Super Bowl dinner. He has his own apron here (one he made for me) and loves to help me in the kitchen whenever he can.
I think I may have a quilter coming up....
While cutting backing and batting for a little quilt, my granddaughter was intrigued by the whole process!!! She laid that piece of fabric over the batting several times before she was happy with how it laid....
She is ALWAYS at my side when I am working in the studio. I really think she will want to learn someday. How happy would that make this Grandma??!!
Once that little quilt was in the hoop, it only took a couple of days to quilt up. I sure love these colors...they are so ME, yet, they are so "someone else" too and will be making their way VERY west and VERY south.
I got an itch to clean today. I mean REALLY clean. I don't know if it is the 45 degree weather (which feels like Spring to me) or the fact that we have all had nasty colds and it just feels "icky" in here, but the main floor got a good scrubbing! The kitchen took a BIG hit with the sponge.
Everything came off the walls, the counters were emptied and all things ON the counters along with the surface itself, were sprayed with Lysol cleaner and wiped down good! Both coffee pots, the knobs to the stove/oven, the microwave and even the salt and pepper shakers and cream and sugar holders were emptied and washed!
It sure did need it, and it sure feels and smells clean in there now! Now to hit that Studio! It is left in shambles and Sassy loves it that way! Me?, not so much!!!!
Praying you have all had a blessed weekend! Say a prayer for us....this next week could bring some VERY good news!!!
I think I may have a quilter coming up....
Once that little quilt was in the hoop, it only took a couple of days to quilt up. I sure love these colors...they are so ME, yet, they are so "someone else" too and will be making their way VERY west and VERY south.
Labels:
Emerson,
Hand Quilting,
Homemaking,
Minature Quilts,
Sassy,
TJ
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